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Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?

14.06.2025 12:46

Why am I so unproductive when it's a holiday the next day?

Frustrated at day to day stuff that suddenly stops working or day to day tasks that often come off as annoying.

Tiring officework/college works, hectic schedules, exhilarating deadlines, stressful environment.

Yours Truly

My stepmother has banned me from the family. Can she legally keep me from going to my father's funeral?

Now imagine that you don't have to continue this enervating cycle for the next two days.

You work from 9 to 5 each day.

Isn't all of this just draining? Sure is.

How often do prisoners try to escape from jail/prison, and how many of them succeed?

This very feeling of sense of relief and calm is what makes us unproductive the day when there's holiday next day.

Then your house chores, personal tasks and commitments.

It drains all of us so much that many just sleep at the moment of contact with their bed/matress.

Would you let your son wear leggings to school?

Shreyansh

Adding to that the commute from home to work and back.

It is because we feel we finally have some time to can relax without worrying for the next day.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Wouldn't that just be a beautiful relief from the ruthless reality?

Taking continuous orders and often reprimands from the seniors and higher ups.